Name: Ama Kalden Chama
Interview Age: 84
Date of Birth: 1929
Birthplace: Kochak, Utsang, Tibet
Year Left Tibet: N/A
Political Prisoner: No
Interview No.: 10C
Location: Portland, Oregon, United States
Categories: Culture and History
Keywords: childhood memories, customs/traditions, farm life, refugee in Nepal -- life as, Utsang, clothing/weaving, death/burial customs, marriage practices
Ama Kalden Chama remembers her birthplace Kochak as a small village. She explains that her family was self-sufficient with every need being produced from the land and animals. They wove fabric from sheep wool to make clothing and she describes a certain plant that was used to dye the fabric for monks' robes red. She also relates that there were no nearby monasteries to request prayer services from, but that a local shaman and laymen were called upon to perform these services for the villagers.
Ama Kalden Chama was the youngest among four siblings and lost her parents at a young age. She describes the various types of burials such as cremation, sky burial and water burial. Due to her stepmother's ill treatment, she later moved to her uncle's house. She shares her experience of being married to a man she had never seen after being taken away to his village. She gives us an insight into these marriage traditions, including why many brides are not informed of the family's plans to marry them off.
Ama Kalden Chama recounts the appearance of the Chinese and the capture of her maternal uncles. Fearing for her life, she fled the village with her husband and two young sons and arrived in Shakhumbu in Nepal to start a new life. She had eventually had eight children and moved to the United States in her late 70s where she was free to spend time on spiritual activities.
- Marcella Adamski (Interviewer)
- Jeddadiah Emanuel (Videographer)
- Kalden Norbu (Interpreter)